Cougar dating is most welcomed by those who oppose traditional dating and seek a healthy, tension free, fun loving relationship. Cougar dating chiefly involves a woman and a man like traditional dating but here the difference is that the woman is usually older than the man.
Here it is worth mentioning that men often consider their woman to be a degraded woman who is ready to pay any sum for the sex. Well, that is where most of you go wrong and find it difficult to accept dating or being in a relationship with a hot cougar woman. When it comes to dating a MILF (Mother I’d Like to F*ck), you won’t pay anything and those cougar moms love having a sexual relationship with younger men if you would like to hook up with them.
Cougars are the women established in their lives and they are not looking forward to find a father for her child or be in a rebound relationship to make her ex-husband jealous and so on. Instead she is tired of all the mess that has happened in her life and wants a relationship mostly with a younger man who will not complicate her life or have expectations of having children or such things. Rather cougar woman wants to date younger partner to fulfill her youthful wishes, spend happier times and feel young all over again.
For impressing a cougar mom you have to be yourself and have the patience. Let her hint you back that she likes you too. Let her persuade you enough. Once you think she has done enough, take the next step. Let her decide for a date and venue and just charm her with your spontaneity, smartness, gestures, sense of humour and cheerful smile. She’ll be totally impressed. No need to be a pseudo-intellectual and boasts about what you have or what you want.
True cougars are women that young men would always want to keep. She’s confident, wise, independent and not at all over possessive or clingy. She pleases and pampers her man as and when needed and wants to be pleased too. Next, if you have been worrying about people telling you that you are dating an oldie, well she’s someone you would love to introduce to your parents, colleagues, cousins and friends. She has a class in everything. The way she speaks, walks, dresses she wears. She’s neither like attention seeking teenagers nor one with a figure like an old woman. She has been working out to be in the shape. So there’s no chance of being embarrassed of dating a woman older than you.
When it comes to bedroom tales, a cougar MILF is going to train you on stuff no woman or hours of porn has ever done. In short, with her you are going to have the time of your life and as a matter of fact, your next girlfriends are going to thank her for making you the ideal man. So cougar dating is very attractive and addicted for young guys.
So better not cheat on her or try to cross your limits. She’s always going to accept what you want to do or where you want to go but she expects you to have the minimum maturity that men of your age group have. She’s surely not expecting you to take her to the college party and throw up there.
If you ever feel that you can’t continue dating her or that it is something not meant for you then do have the courage to walk up to her and explain politely. Seeing other women or avoiding her will make the whole thing absolutely bitter. And a cougar and a young man’s bond is one worth cherishing forever.